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Ezra gets fired, his mom runs away with the rabbi's wife, he meets a sexy widower, and oh yeah, he sees ghosts
Glover Tawwab talks about boundaries in a way that feels accessible and doable
Crammed full of fascinating, practical information you can use immediately to build/improve connections
Drag Queens!
Hunky Hollywood stars! Secretly gay superheroes!
More fun queer historical fiction from Cat Sebastian-1960's baseball style!
A lesbian feminist explores where heterosexuality has gone awry, and what can be done about it
You had me at "Spite House," but you really won my heart with "monster fucking," Olivia Dade!
An alleged feminist utopia built in a world wracked by climate change.....is it all that it seems?
Angela Chen really got my mind working! I appreciate the challenges to the beliefs we've all been handed.
Exploring bodily autonomy and reproductive rights through sci fi, fantasy, and horror!
Curious about "sex addiction?" David Ley makes it interesting, thought-provoking, and fun to ponder
Family drama, grappling with childhood traumas, sexiness and gothic castle vibes all in one book!
Walker speaks to the heart of CPTSD both from the perspective of a clinician AND a survivor
Can fairy tale-loving producer Dev help Charlie find his princess? Whose fairy tale is this, anyway?
Snuggle up to this warm and fuzzy Sapphic Christmas rom com full of family holiday fun and drama!
A Lambda Literary Award Winner! Also funny, sexy, and just plain fun to read!
A queer rom com full of music, missed opportunities, and what it truly means to be home and find your family.
What if a Hollywood job turned into a Hollywood ending?
Hetero and monogamy centric, but still lots of useful insights and interventions
A super helpful, fun to read look at how attachment shows up in our relationships and what to do about it
Another sexy, queer, historical romance! This one full of smugglers, baronets, and family fueds!
How did I manage to read two queer love stories in a row about falling for the boss?!
Can a "ruined woman" and socially ostracized advocate for women's rights find love?
Magic! Murder! Shipboard Romance in this second volume of a fun queer historical fantasy series!
No one better to learn from if you work with kinky clients!
What happens when a nonbinary person and an Italian castrato form a spectacular connection?
A warm and fuzzy romance between two queer fat women of color that will have you swooning
"Contemporary Sapphic Rom-Com" with compassionate portrayal of trauma and sexual function issues
The whole Cowboys of California trilogy is not to be missed. Sexy cowboys, romance, and more!
Will they or won't they?
Your personal guide to better sex through science! Also checkout her podcast! She's amazing!
Fabulous, sexy romance if that's what you're in the mood for!
Couples therapists, check this out! Chances are pretty good your clients have sexual concerns, and you can help!
Georgina and Nathan explore swinging to save their relationship after a breach of trust
I think the title says it all! Packed full of awesome info, helpful ideas, and personal experiences.
A story of queer love and resilience with a nonbinary hero
Everyone is sexual! Learn how to make sure you are reaching folks on the margins.
What if Sleeping Beauty was into girls.....?
Sexy erotic novel exploring the black, gay, online hookup scene
Erotic short stories by famous authors, published anonymously
The always amazing Octavia Butler explores gender issues in an awesome Afrofuturist novel
An erotic novel about sex magic!
How the heck do you do consensual non-monogamy? Find out here!
Queer BIPOC heroines battle oppression and the undead
A well-known evangelical leader shares what she learned on her journey from Paul to Paula.
Couples therapists: Learn how to work with sexual issues in therapy
Learn about period poverty, menstrual justice, and fighting period stigma!
Beams explores consequences of the time-honored tradition of doubting the bodies and minds of women and girls
Compassionate evaluation and treatment for folks struggling with OCSB
Thoughts about porn, having sex with your students, whether men have a "right to sex," and more.
What do we fantasize about? Is it "normal?" How do we talk to our partners about our fantasies?
Are you a MH professional who needs to learn more about consensual nonmonogamy? Here you go!
A black lesbian vampire classic
Octavia Butler gives us sexually fluid vampires with much negotiation of boundaries and consent
A reconstruction of feminism that centers women of color
A Wild West themed fantasy series with a trans hero that tackles issues of race, sexuality, gender, and MONSTERS
Definitely check out her TedTalk and her videos and podcasts.
An exploration of what the heck we all "do" sexually
An LGBT Elder interviews HER LGBT Elders
Go out and read all of her books, RIGHT NOW! Seriously. She is amazing.
Learn all about penises from a penis doctor!
Read all of her books to immerse yourself in one of today's feminist voices.
White folks, let's figure this out!
A novel that takes us inside a closed cultural world and the domestic abuse it can conceal
What can you accomplish with your "louding voice?"
An inside look into the experiences of a survivor of predatory sexual behavior by a powerful adult toward a child
Also the author of other awesome books such as "Bad Feminist"
This IS a witch hunt. We are the witches, and we are hunting you.
Timothy Janovsky makes the yuletide "as gay as possible" in this festive Christmas adventure!
I love everything Valenti writes. Devoured this fascinating and informative book in one sitting!
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A fascinating inside look at the neuroscience of pleasure
The Lucky Lovers of London collection continues with a lavender open marriage and the return of fav characters
So many wonderful tools for your boundary-setting toolbox!
A Dominatrix teaches us how to access both dominant and submissive forms of power
The basics to help your average therapist understand and support their kinky clients
A twisty exploration of how we perceive male violence against women, and how it's portrayed in the media.
I loved this so much, I couldn't put it down!
Emily Nagoski does it again! Couldn't put this one down! So full of useful ideas and strategies it broke my brain.
Full of useful tools and perspectives for poly folks and for all of us, really!
This book is a game changer for touch and for life in general!
A hot fat butch Christmas tree farmer, a manic elf artist, and frantic efforts to save a Christmas tree farm!
Learn about sex pain experienced by AFAB folks and surprising strategies for healing
Revenge, queer witch love, and a competition for the ages in a magical town full of wonders!
So grateful to the friend who gifted me this lovely book. Check out all of her books, including writing prompts!
Poorly managed stress kills desire. Let Emily and Amelia Nagoski help you learn to manage it!
A whodunit set in the 1950's in a supposedly safe space for LGBTQ folks
Kosoko Jackson's writing is hilarious!
I could not put down this book! Part memoir, part anatomy, part history, part culture of butts!
Curious about how to bring your mindfulness practice to the bedroom (or wherever you have sex!)?
Can falling in (very gay) love with the boss's son in the 1950's newspaper culture ever truly work out?
An invaluable resource for anyone whose life has been touched in any way by infidelity
A trans dad navigates pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, and the BS assumptions of others.
I LOVE Jonathan Ames! Read all of his books! I love how transparent and self-deprecating he is.
Okay, you got me, this book is not about sex. And it was too awesome not to share!
How to think about, talk about, and have the sex you really want
Need help with premature ejaculation, get this excellent book!
Anxiety. Romance. Sex. Baking.
Recovering from infidelity? You need the wisdom of Dr. Tammy.
Your own personal guide to better sex through mindfulness!
What's not to love about a sexy, Christmas-themed romance in a small town?
A guide to creating your ideal relationship by a leading expert in Open Monogamy!
What happens when women are randomly assigned either motherhood or a career, but are not allowed both?
In a world where violating the "Sanctity of Life" amendment leads to a dangerous and sinister punishment....
Magical realism starring Argentinian trans sex workers surviving and building community on the margins
A sex writer explores her own journey with sex and sexuality
What happens when a sex educator and an accountant suddenly co-own a sex toy shop? Sexiness!
Author of the "What it's Like" column explores the experiences of folks with marginalized sexual practices
Trans folks fight an army of TERFS to survive in a world where too much T turns you into a cannibal sex fiend
What's going on in our bodies and brains when we are living through heartbreak?
Therapists: Learn a structured approach to more satisfying, mindful, embodied sex
Forget what you think you know about fairy tales...
How sexism and racism in healthcare kill women
Exploring the damage done when we try to "pray the gay away."
Using Imago Therapy techniques to get the sex you want!
Meet forgotten advocates from the Gilded Age who fought for womens' rights to control their own bodies
A memoir of womanhood in America in seven (body) parts
A must-read for mental health professionals
In their debut novel Mandelo asks: What if you didn't realize you were in love with your best friend until they were dead?
The tale of the trans grandchild of Katrina VanTassel and Brom Bones
A challenge to the whitewashed history of feminism
An inside look at how powerful systems silence folks who are victimized
Support for female-identified survivors of childhood sexual abuse
A memoir about surviving intimate partner violence
Get your hands on all of faer books! Gender diverse characters and examining of painful issues.
Also check out Dear Ijeawele!
Insights from the internet about what we're up to sexually
A trans hero, written by a trans author, based on trans history. I love this author. Read all of their books!
Everything she writes is marvelous!
Learn all about the vulva and it's accompanying parts!
Raising a child of any gender?
Spinsterhood. An amazing, empowering life.
After you read this, you're going to want to follow ALL of the authors in this anthology!
An in depth look into some very scary subcultures
Is your feminism intersectional? Probably not as much as it could be, but you can work on it!
Radical self love...AND she has a workbook!
Also check out Girls & Sex, and all her other books!
Andy Mills is back, this time with gay mafia, a secret book club, and a scheming reporter with something to hide
Get to know your nervous system and how to appreciate and tap into it in everyday life
Woah! Movie magic! Monsters! Sci Fi! Horror! Friendship and love! Coming out in a big way!
Wife and Wife team Karelia and Fay Stetz-Waters show us a good time in their first co-authored novel!
Need some help thinking about forgiveness and how (even whether) to go about it?
A Parent Trap, Lesbian Debutantes, and fighting against Intimate Partner Violence all in one!
Even MORE shit no one teaches us in school, or anywhere, ever about our bodies!
Like candy for my nerdy little brain on so many levels! I gobbled it up in one sitting!
The most disturbing book I've read in some time.
Magic, chosen family, and very sexy power play round out The Last Binding Trilogy!
Much needed research presented compassionately and respectfully.
Sex, sea monsters, piracy, magic, and lots of nonbinary characters with a variety of pronouns!
Learn how to challenge internalized harmful messages, handle stress, build supports, and be your true self!
Explore the effects of racialized trauma on our bodies and experiment with practices for healing
Why are we focused on abortion when folks could solve a wealth of issues by ejaculating responsibly?
Full of fantastic resources for therapists AND for poly folks. Martha is amazing!
The senior ladies group of All Souls Parish decide to make an "erotica" book as a church fundraiser!
Another sexy, funny, queer adventure by Alexis Hall, this time with immortals, fairies, witches, and magic!
Another great book by Barry and Emily McCarthy!
The reincarnation of Arthurian myths into modern day queer folks doing heroic magic and falling in love!
Work on your relationship together using ACT principles, laid out simply and gently.
Could one last hurrah before a last chance marriage of convenience turn into something more?
An Interior Designer and a Carpenter clash on a tv renovation show...what can they build together?
Got my copy pre-ordered and can't wait to start sharing with clients!
Threesomes, politics, secret marriages, art, interracial love affairs, and scandal!
The story of a queer, butch hijabi navigating life, faith, and relationships
Explore what ensues when a father goes to extremes to protect his daughters from the evils of men
Fantastic self-guided tour through coping with Erectile Dysfunction!
What can research tell us about how to have magnificent sex?
Looking for a romance novel with a trans heroine? Here she is!
Check out her website for guided meditations to go with the concepts discussed in this book!
Bad boy meets barrister for fake romance turned....something unexpected....
Need help living your most pleasurable and secure polyamorous life? Check this out?
A comic book that busts myths and is crammed with sexiness!
In a world where the Christian Right takes over the country and women can only speak 100 words per day....
Will demisexual Wren get his first kiss with the handsome Derick?! (Of course he freaking will!)
Check out one woman's unflinching examination of her experiences with polyamory
Thinking critically about Bestiality and Zoophilia
Memoir of a couple living and loving with HIV/AIDS
Jones describes growing up in and breaking free from a religious cult rife with sexual abuse
Step inside the Red Tent
Clinical approaches to trans sexualities and erotic embodiments
Imagine a United States in which same gender marriage was the norm...
The story of a trans hero based on British folklore
The most disturbing novel I've read in a LONG time explores unrealistic standards for motherhood.
Explore the history of trans medical and mental health care. Challenge your beliefs about existing EBM.
Bowen introduces us to trap feminism, and lots of other vocabulary
Queer historical fiction full of magic and sexiness!
Owen writes YA novels full of same sex couples, nonbinary folks, and characters that challenge gender roles.
An exploration of womens' lives in a country where abortion is criminalized
Fall in love with queer historical romance. Read anything by Cat Sebastian!
A look inside the experiences of a survivor and the failures of our criminal justice system
Explore how white feminism has become a weapon of white supremacy and the patriarchy
Erotic blood drinker steampunk series with great consent and respect for boundaries
A story of love, family, and finding where/with whom you belong
An awfully handy book if you have a clitoris!
An exploration of sexual safety on college campuses
Challenging how we think about infidelity
Exploring the dichotomy of domesticity and sexual desire
And she has a new book out!
Get busy in your antiracist journey. Read ALL of his amazing books!
Start with her book about rape culture, then read the rest of her work!
Challenging what we think we know about domestic abuse
I am in love with this novel that trans and queer author K. M. Szpara describes as "really gay."
STIs have never seemed so friendly
Another powerful feminist voice
Also check out his film Tough Guise